Forgiving someone truly and moving on in life isn't an easy thing.be it a lover or friend we mostly get betrayed or hurt by the person we love not from our enemies.
We all have been betrayed or back stabbed by our friends or anyone and it takes alot of effort to forget it and move on. Forgiving is a very difficult decision. Forgiving is a choice
Forgiving doesn't simply mean that you forgive and forget whatever they did. Infact Forgiving does not excuse their behavior,but it prevent their behavior from destroying your heart.
How do I forgive them?
Below is step by step guide on how you can forgive them and ourselves.
#1.It possible to forgive know that.
First of all we need to belive that forgiveness is possible and that is the only practical solution to the problem
#2. Choose to forgive.
Understand how forgiveness affects our mind positively.
#3. Let your anger go out.
Analyze the state of your mind and how you've been letting your anger go out.
#4. Commit yourself.
Tend to commit yourself to the act of forgiveness
#5. Consider the other person.
Think about the other person being hurt because of you and if that contubuted to yours.
#6. Remind yourself that the other person is a human too.
Think that you both were born in this world from a mother, and will die, bleed and unique in some or the other way.
#7. Soften your heart.
Be compassionate and let go of your anger.
#8. Reflect and discover.
You'll see right through others pain and that you're stronger and happier.
#9. Repeat.
Go back to the list you started with.
You can't change thee past by Forgiving, but you can certainly change your future. It is the sweetest revenge
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